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To Work or Stay at Home - A Difficult Choice For Many Women
Deciding whether to work or stay at home to raise a family is a
difficult choice for women. Both, younger moms and established
career women must determine what ultimately will work best for
themselves and their families. Here are some points to consider
as you review your options:
One
size can't fit all
Does it seem that everyone you know has become a stay-at-home
mom? This must mean you should stay at home with your children
too, right? Not necessarily. You know yourself better than
anyone else. Will you feel fulfilled if you leave your career
behind? Are you prepared to exchange power lunches for daily
power struggles?
It's
a Family Affair
Your decision affects all family members, so get their input
before you cast the final vote. Invite them to a family meeting
and briefly discuss the options you are considering. Ask for
their opinions. This approach will put you in a much better
position to make a decision you can live with, because you can
incorporate their needs and desires into your decision.
Don't Look Back
It's a good idea to reevaluate your situation from time to time,
because family needs change, but don't keep second-guessing
yourself. You will know when the decision you made is no longer
right for you and your family, and you can always make changes.
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